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Reach for the Sky, But Don't Overdo It
If you're like most traders, you are in this
business to make money, big money. In all probability,
you are ambitious, independent minded and ready to take
on the world. With this ambition usually comes a need to
be the best. Only the people at the top of the field
achieve the highest level of success. Although striving
for expertise is a prerequisite for success, it usually
coincides with a need to be perfect, and a fear of
failure. If you are too much of a perfectionist, you may
fear being wrong, losing money, or missing an important
trading opportunity. Ironically, if you strive for
extreme perfectionism, you may choke under the strain.
In our status
oriented society, we often work under the assumption
that we must be thoroughly competent, adequate, and
achieving. We tend to believe that if we make a mistake
that we will be punished. The development of this belief
is understandable. As we grow up, whether it is at home,
school or work, we often face adverse consequences for
not being scrupulously proficient in everything that we
do. But holding such a belief produces fear and anxiety,
which for traders often produces hesitation and
self-doubt. In addition, if we believe that we must
always be competent, we will expend all our precious
psychological energy mulling over the negative
consequences of failing, rather than focusing on what we
are doing in the here-and-now to implement our current
trading plan. Traders who believe they must be
thoroughly competent spend all their time worrying about
what they did wrong, what may go wrong, and how they
will recover should they fail. These thoughts are
distracting and obscure the flow of immediate
experience, and the ability to read current market
activity with unfailing accuracy.
For your long
term enduring success, it is vital that you learn to
ease up. You don't have to be perfect. You are bound to
make mistakes occasionally, and if you are consumed with
avoiding them, you'll be so anxious and fearful that you
will make even more mistakes. In addition, trading isn't
exactly a science. Even when you think a trading plan
through carefully, you can't account for every
possibility. An unexpected event may ruin your plan and
there is nothing you could have done about it, but
manage your risk and chalk up it to fate. Sure, you
don't want to make too many mistakes, but you can make a
few occasionally with little repercussions. Striving for
perfectionism is an important ideal to hold, but don't
forget that it is just an ideal. You might try to reach
for it, but don't beat yourself up when you don't get
there. All you can do in the end is do your best and
keep building up your trading skills. If you keep trying
to excel, but stay realistic, you'll eventually achieve
enduring success.
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