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Looking for a Way Out
Dave
complains to his wife, "It's all a sham. There's no way
to make money in the markets. There are just too many
roadblocks. The odds are against you all the way." Dave
is fed up. He's ready to quit, and he is searching for a
way out. Rather than persist in the face of adversity,
he's ready to find a new profession. At these times,
though, resilience is vital. It's not a time to brood,
but a time to stand up and persist.
Dave's complaints
are somewhat legitimate. If someone tells you trading
the markets is easy money, they are either kidding you
or kidding themselves. If trading were easy, everyone
would be making huge profits doing it. There is no Holy
Grail, no quick-and-dirty way to make profits. If you
want to reach the status of a master trader, however,
it's going to take sacrifices, commitment, and just
plain hard work. Indeed, there are endless setbacks, and
unless you are a skillful, experienced trader, the odds
are against you. For those who approach trading as an
amateur hobbyist, it might as well all be a sham because
taking such an approach isn't going to make you a
winning trader. If you want to convince yourself that it
just isn't worth it, you can find many reasons to give
up. At that point, you will try to find any excuse to
avoid the hard times ahead, and just walk away. You'll
sabotage yourself by taking unnecessary risks and
impulsively trading poor setups. If you want to find a
justification to give up, you will find it. It's natural
to fall prey to such a pessimistic attitude, but if you
want to be a winning trader, you can't give in to such
pessimism. To make it, it is vital that you learn to
stay optimistic, persistent, and ready to overcome any
setback.
That said, it is
often hard to stay upbeat. There are times when nothing
seems to click. Your trading strategies don't work, or
you may have trouble getting an accurate read on the
markets. It is a common ailment. Depending on your past
experience, there are times when the market doesn't seem
to behave in the way you anticipate. Market conditions
are fluid, and unless you have a wealth of experience,
you may simply not be familiar with all the factors that
are driving market action. It may just be a matter of
standing aside until market conditions change. To a
trader who is tired, worn out, and looking for excuses
to give up, however, less than optimal market conditions
can be a deathblow. It's just one of the many reasons to
give up. But to reach the status of a master trader, it
is necessary to weather the storm. Instead of reacting
with stunned paralysis, the winning trader views
unfavorable market conditions as a learning opportunity.
It is a time to gain more market experience. The
optimistic trader objectively studies the markets,
trying to understand how the market moves and why. It
isn't a time to be stuck, but a time to think creatively
and hone trading skills. It's at times like these that
it is time to stand up and cultivate a fighting spirit.
When you're down
and out, and ready to give up, it can be difficult to
cultivate a fighting spirit. All looks bleak, as if it
is impossible to get back on track. But it's possible to
overcome the malaise. First, acknowledge that you feel
beaten. There's no point in pretending that you are not
feeling down. If you don't, you may not put your
feelings in perspective. Rather than think, "I may be
down, but I'm not out," you may start thinking, "It's
time to throw in the towel." If you admit you're merely
tired and worn out, though, you won't make matters worse
by making trading errors and digging yourself into a
deeper emotional hole of despair. Second, stand aside
and rest. It's all right to take a break. Even the most
successful trader feels a little burned out at times. By
resting, relaxing, and rejuvenating, you'll find the
strength to muster enough enthusiasm to tackle the
markets again. And this time, you may find that the
obstacles that once seemed insurmountable are now just
minor bumps in the road to success.
After you have
taken care of practical issues, like managing risk and
building up enough trading capital, you can then address
the psychological side of accepting losses. First, put
the money you spend for trading in a different "mental
compartment" from the money you allot to your personal
life. Second, identify and refute assumptions about risk
and loss. It may be useful to make a list of
justifications that you can read after you have lost:
"Losses are a business expense. It's like a personal
investment in your trading business. It's like paying
tuition in order to learn important trading lessons."
These sayings may not work at first. It's hard to change
your expectations over night. It takes practice. That's
why you should actually write down these sayings about
losses, and read through the list when you feel guilty
about a loss.
Trading the
markets can be emotionally draining, and if you aren't
careful, you can feel beaten and ready to quit. But
rather than search for a way out, it's essential to
remember the reasons to stay. If you persist, gain as
much experience as possible, and hone your trading
skills, you'll achieve enduring financial success.
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